Often we’re the only ones standing in the way of our own success. We struggle to find the motivation to do the things we need to do. I just wanted to share a story with you about my inspiration, my motivation, and one of the most incredible people I have ever had the pleasure to know, a girl named Kristen.
Kristen was born on February 12, 1990. By all accounts, she was very normal, except for her exceedingly calm demeanor for a newborn – but hey, what parent would complain about that?! She came into a family with a loving mother and father, and a big brother who just couldn’t wait to have a brand new best friend. As time went along, however, her parents realized that she wasn’t developing at a normal rate. At six months old, she was taken in for testing, and that’s when the news came. Kristen had Lissencephaly, a very rare brain formation disorder. This meant that, while her body would grow, her brain would essentially stay that of an infant or young toddler, for the remainder of her life. There was more bad news. Individuals with Lissencephaly have a very short life expectancy. Kristen’s parents were told that it was very unlikely that she would see her 3rd birthday. In the coming weeks, and months, all that they would hear were the things that Kristen could not, and would not do. She would never get on the school bus to go to Kindergarten, never walk, talk, or go to a school dance, with a boy. However, behind all of this, there was a miracle taking place. You see, in a world where Kristen was defined by the things that she couldn’t and wouldn’t ever be able to do, her parents focused on all that she COULD and WOULD do. Her family focused every bit of time they had with her on celebrating her life. Eighteen years later, Kristen left this world, surrounded by family and friends (and an unbelievable number of people thinking about her and praying for her around the world). She left, having beaten the odds on so many different occasions and having done more than anyone (except those in her immediate family) had ever thought possible. She had lived well beyond the 2 years that the doctor had predicted. And, while she never walked or talked, she went to Kindergarten (actually into high school), she communicated through her eyes and her actions, and she even went to a couple homecoming dances, with a date. Her older brother, and two younger siblings never saw her as a burden – only as a blessing. Everyone else followed suit. Kristen affected a positive change in more people than anyone else I have ever met. Knowing her is the reason that I will always push through, when times are hard, and I will NEVER abandon doing something just because someone else says that I can’t. By traditional standards, Kristen couldn’t do very much at all, but everyone with whom she ever came into contact knows that she did more than anyone will ever understand. I’m so happy to have known her and loved her; so happy to call her my little sister and my best friend.
Every day that I don’t feel like getting out of bed and going to work, every time I don’t want to run that last mile, lift that last weight, or push any farther, I think of Kristen. I think of all of the things that she couldn’t have done, if she’d tried, and then I remember all that she did do, against all odds. She’s my role model. She is my inspiration and my motivation. She is the reason I will succeed.
So what gets you up in the morning? What drives you to be the best person, that you can be? What will get you to your goals, and ultimately lead to your success? Is it your kids or your family? Is it what you want to look like, by the time summer rolls around? Or something else? Let me know! I’d love to hear it! I’ll pick one person’s response and they’ll win a prize!